5. Take it from one who knows

It sounds like you have a great relationship. Congratulations for that! A word of advice: take it slowly. You sound so much like me. I was pushing for more control, and when my boyfriend obliged, I found it was not exactly what I'd expected. Micromanagement might work for some but if you start feeling trapped and wretched, don't ignore your feelings, talk to your husband. Take it slowly and you'll have less to undo later.

My boyfriend is doing what he thinks I want, but that can't make it right if it isn't. I know he loves me and I know we'll work it out together, but it would have been better if we'd taken it more slowly to start with.

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