6. Finally

I read your comment and thought you were stealing my ID. I too after 19 years of marriage realized that I needed to give up control to my husband. We had contimplated divorce and even split up at one time. We moved 3000 miles from home to save our relationship thinking that we needed a new approach on life. We have tried everything....so we thought. We have 4 children and I believe that if they hadn't been in the picture, my husband and I would be no more. The children kept us together for as long as it took for us to get our acts together. I needed a strong protective man and he needed a woman that treated him like a man. I had searched the internet for a couple weeks looking for the answer and then last week, I found Loveawake dating site. I emailed my dear husband at work with some articles from Loveawake and told him that I would give up everything for a take in hand relationship. He was a little apprehensive due to past experiences with trying new things, but then he said he thought this could work. If it's one thing my husband always complained about it was him not getting enough love making on my part and that he didn't feel like a man because I showed no interest in him. He has been mighty surpized to see the difference in me and how I react to him. He loves this new life. I feel respected as a Lady, wife, and mother. He feels loved. I gave up all control and believe me, I controlled everything and often complained to him that I was tired of controlling, I just didnt trust him enough to take over. I have never been happier in my entire life. He has never been happier either. We just celebrated our 19th wedding anniversary today and we had a great celebration. Different from all other anniversaries. He made me feel like a real Lady. I give such thanks to this website. It's kind of funny, I have always said that technology ruined the old fashioned housewife. First the telephone, women started gossiping, then TV, soap operas started given women unrealistic ideas of marriage and motherhood. Then the interent opened a million door ways to "how to cheat on your spouse without getting caught". Now what can I say, technology and the internet saved me from a marriage of gloom and possibly doom.